<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5827336240373183012.post8021016046156705234..comments</id><updated>2011-10-10T14:49:00.579+01:00</updated><category term='Life&apos;s Illusions'/><category term='perfectionism'/><category term='crooked teeth'/><category term='rebirth'/><category term='beauty within'/><category term='creating'/><category term='self sabotage'/><category term='duality'/><category term='void'/><category term='straighten'/><category term='lettinggo'/><category term='nature'/><category term='art'/><category term='On Enjoying The Present Moment'/><category term='forgiveness'/><category term='uncertainty'/><category term='lawofattraction'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='Shamanism'/><category term='artist'/><category term='emptiness'/><category term='allowing'/><category term='Authenticity'/><category term='Gloucester'/><category term='wealth'/><category term='inner world'/><category term='innerprosperity'/><category term='law of attraction'/><category term='Prosperity Consciousness'/><category term='frustration'/><category term='manifestation'/><category term='write'/><category term='Kirsten Dunst'/><category term='receiving'/><category term='ugly'/><category term='consumerism'/><category term='creator'/><category term='Entertainment'/><category term='belong'/><category term='Let Go And Trust'/><category term='consciousness changing'/><category term='Self-Love'/><category term='innerwealth'/><category term='inner abundance'/><category term='muse'/><category term='buck teeth'/><category term='monsters'/><category term='gummy'/><category term='self esteem'/><category term='direction'/><category term='Sacred Solitude'/><category term='Abundance'/><category term='letting go'/><category term='Kelly Martin'/><category term='solitude'/><category term='blocks'/><category term='totems'/><category term='responsibility'/><category term='shadow'/><category term='mother earth'/><category term='trust'/><category term='aloneness'/><category term='abrahamhicks'/><category term='retirement'/><category term='On Being An Outsider'/><category term='creating your reality'/><category term='change'/><category term='animal medicine'/><category term='Shamanism And Spirituality'/><category term='youtube'/><category term='innerchild'/><category term='unknown'/><category term='creativity'/><category term='embracing'/><category term='flow'/><category term='perfection'/><category term='inner prosperity'/><category term='abraham hicks'/><category term='Resistance'/><category term='inner beauty'/><category term='recession'/><category term='hollywood smile'/><category term='prosperity'/><category term='attached'/><category term='spirituality'/><category term='Messages From Source'/><category term='divine feminine'/><category term='Jon Heder'/><category term='KellyMartinSpeaks'/><category term='messages from spirit'/><category term='inner wealth'/><category term='poetry'/><category term='creatingyourreality'/><category term='unfolding'/><category term='fear'/><category term='writing'/><category term='goofy'/><category term='money'/><title type='text'>Comments on Kelly Martin Speaks: Looking Deeper Than Outward Appearances</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/feeds/8021016046156705234/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/8021016046156705234/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/2011/10/looking-deeper-that-outward-appearances.html'/><author><name>Kelly</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00316318484388835805</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='31' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-nyE2OY1Zm-U/TxAYl35EHPI/AAAAAAAAADM/2HBQxpdLOUw/s220/pink2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5827336240373183012.post-1504241539659988485</id><published>2011-10-10T14:49:00.579+01:00</published><updated>2011-10-10T14:49:00.579+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks Marla, I see some narcisstic traits in myse...</title><content type='html'>Thanks Marla, I see some narcisstic traits in myself not all of them. It was helpful to question and turnaround my thoughts on this. I know if I do have traits the very fact I am aware of them probably means I am not a narcissist. I know a couple of narcissists too, very self-absorbed and none of the emotional empathy you need when relating to other human beings. I try and make a connection with them but receive no heart connection back, its really strange to me but I am learning to accept that is the way they are and they will either change or not but its not my responsibility.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Much love xxxx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/8021016046156705234/comments/default/1504241539659988485'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/8021016046156705234/comments/default/1504241539659988485'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/2011/10/looking-deeper-that-outward-appearances.html?showComment=1318254540579#c1504241539659988485' title=''/><author><name>Kelly Martin</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13728840206657924206</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IgnYnbNNx70/ToiQ1UziKCI/AAAAAAAAA3U/iJ7Bsf7dWoM/s220/indiansummer5.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/2011/10/looking-deeper-that-outward-appearances.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5827336240373183012.post-8021016046156705234' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/posts/default/8021016046156705234' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1457196946'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5827336240373183012.post-5487398724100918015</id><published>2011-10-08T14:13:08.969+01:00</published><updated>2011-10-08T14:13:08.969+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Goodness.  First of all, from what I know of you, ...</title><content type='html'>Goodness.  First of all, from what I know of you, I do not see narcissism.  I have a couple of friends are a total narcissists (they miss me till they realize i don&amp;#39;t fulfill need #6; a need fueled and influenced by #1, #3 and #7 ;~D)and the woman I currently work with is a narcissist (in her mid 60s and fits all from #1-#7 ;).    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fact that you are able to reflect the way you do and learn and grow the way you do prove that you aren&amp;#39;t.  I think you&amp;#39;re just growing into your self confidence.  Learning you how to trust in ourselves enough to look out for ourselves enough to attempt to trust others again is hard.  I still struggle myself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are awesome!  Thanks for sharing  so openly : )</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/8021016046156705234/comments/default/5487398724100918015'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/8021016046156705234/comments/default/5487398724100918015'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/2011/10/looking-deeper-that-outward-appearances.html?showComment=1318079588969#c5487398724100918015' title=''/><author><name>Marla Turner</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05352274265979753034</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07437426183787420805'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='25' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-svXklSB9tC0/TXPhNB_PyJI/AAAAAAAAAAQ/Z3ECp1RCGOo/s220/Ever-Expanding.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.kellymartinspeaks.co.uk/2011/10/looking-deeper-that-outward-appearances.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5827336240373183012.post-8021016046156705234' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5827336240373183012/posts/default/8021016046156705234' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1652183869'/></entry></feed>
